Q: Dear Ms. Mango:

I have been crushing on this guy or a while now, and I have yet to actually tell him. The problem is, my best friend talks to him almost all the time, and they have started liking each other. I want her to be happy, but I still like him. How do I deal with my crush and best friend liking each other?

Sincerely,

Confused Crush

A: Dear Confused Crush:

Did your friend know you liked him in the first place? Honestly, there isn’t much you can do if you don’t talk to him. Also, if he already has feelings for you friend, would it even work out? These questions are what you should be asking yourself. My advice would be: Talk to your friend about it, and see what she has to say. If she isn’t clear about it, ask your crush directly.